JAY BARNES 1967-2022 OAKLAND--Jay Barnes, born April 13, 1967, passed away in his home on January 27, 2022. Jay was raised in Canton, CT as the youngest of five children. With his family's involvement in the sport, Jay developed a love for auto racing at a young age. As an adult he not only remained a fan, but both worked on race teams and was given opportunities to drive. Jay also had a passion for cooking, crafted in time spent working at the local hot spot in Canton, Kelly's, where so many late night and early morning memories were made. Though possibly his favorite accomplishment was being a family man with his daughter, Caitlyn and his wife, Jennifer. From teaching Caitlyn how to drive, to being there for every school event, and working in her store. With Jennifer he shared racing, love, and life. Jay was also a great friend, keeping close contact with old schoolmates through social media. Jay is survived by his parents, Mary, and Donald Barnes; his siblings, Vonetta, Gary, Todd, and Jeff; many nephews and a niece; his daughter Caitlyn; and his wife, Jennifer. Jay's generosity, kindness, and humor knew no bounds and he will be missed endlessly. At this time, no services will be held but are expected to be announced at a later date. Arrangements are in the care of Wheeler Funeral Home, 26 Church St., Oakland, where condolences may be shared with the family on the obituary page of the website at www.familyfirstfuneralhomes.com. Click this link to view additional details about Jay's Services, including any available live streams: https://my.gather.app/remember/jay-barnes